You probably never heard your sex education teacher stop the class and say it’s time to talk about anal sex. But maybe you should have.
In a recent tweetstorm, Teen Vogue digital editorial director Phillip Picardi broke down why his magazine recently ran a story on some of the basics of anal sex. He explained how, as a gay man, he would have found any introductory information incredibly valuable when he was younger. His basic message: Teens, including gay and bisexual youth, are going to have sex anyway, so it’s important that they’re educated on how it all works — and how to be safe — instead of learning about it as they go.
If it's ok with you guys, I'm gonna TALK ABOUT ANAL SEX FOR A WEE LIL THREAD.
— Phillip Picardi (@pfpicardi) July 14, 2017
We published a 411 on Anal Sex story on @TeenVogue as a continued part of our sex education coverage.
— Phillip Picardi (@pfpicardi) July 14, 2017
I monitor the webmaster email and have been inundated with hate mail saying we promote sodomy and want teens to get AIDS.
— Phillip Picardi (@pfpicardi) July 14, 2017
It's funny, because I went to Catholic high school and had 0 sex education. I also had a teacher tell me gay sex was a sin in God's eyes.
— Phillip Picardi (@pfpicardi) July 14, 2017
Fast forward to frosh year of NYU, me crying at Callen-Lorde Community Health Center, bc I'd just slept w someone who I found out was HIV+.
— Phillip Picardi (@pfpicardi) July 14, 2017
The kind folks at Callen-Lorde taught me about HIV/AIDS, what it is, and how it's contracted. They also told me to get tested regularly.
— Phillip Picardi (@pfpicardi) July 14, 2017
They also explained the concept of HIV stigma, and that HIV and AIDS are two different things. And that HIV is not a death sentence.
— Phillip Picardi (@pfpicardi) July 14, 2017
Then they taught me the importance of safer sex, and what I needed to know in particular as a gay man.
— Phillip Picardi (@pfpicardi) July 14, 2017
I left a 40-minute doctor's appointment with more life-saving information than I ever received in all my years of private school education.
— Phillip Picardi (@pfpicardi) July 14, 2017
You see, my Catholic school was guilty of endangering all of us by sheer omission of FACTS. EDUCATION doesn't equal ENCOURAGEMENT.
— Phillip Picardi (@pfpicardi) July 14, 2017
Multiple studies have shown abstinence-only sex-ed is linked to higher rates of STIs and teen pregnancies.
— Phillip Picardi (@pfpicardi) July 14, 2017
TBH, it is IRRESPONSIBLE. How can you possibly expect teenagers to practice safe sex if they don't know what's at risk?
— Phillip Picardi (@pfpicardi) July 14, 2017
How can you expect young women to not get pregnant without access to reproductive health care?
— Phillip Picardi (@pfpicardi) July 14, 2017
The backlash to this article is rooted in homophobia. It's also laced in arcane delusion about what it means to be a young person today.
— Phillip Picardi (@pfpicardi) July 14, 2017
If I had today's @TeenVogue and @VeraPapisova when I was a teen, I would have been so much safer and better off.
— Phillip Picardi (@pfpicardi) July 14, 2017
Instead, I made mistakes that consisted of quite a few doctor's appointments! But I'm ok!!
— Phillip Picardi (@pfpicardi) July 14, 2017
But until queer sex, love, and families are included in education, we're doing a dangerous and potentially lethal disservice...
— Phillip Picardi (@pfpicardi) July 14, 2017
to a growing population. Gen Z will be our queerest and most fearless generation yet.
— Phillip Picardi (@pfpicardi) July 14, 2017
In conclusion, here's my only reply I'll be giving to any of the messages. pic.twitter.com/KiFjVqLlH3
— Phillip Picardi (@pfpicardi) July 14, 2017
Picardi is supported by the evidence. Several studies show that comprehensive sex education is correlated with lower rates of pregnancy, while abstinence-only education is not. One review of the research found that comprehensive sex education delayed the initiation of sex and increased condom and contraceptive use, while abstinence-only programs did not.
Yet in much of the US, abstinence-only programs remain the standard in sex ed classes.
Things are even worse for queer youth. In seven states, it’s not even legal for educators to talk about homosexuality: Alabama, Arizona, Louisiana, Mississippi, Oklahoma, South Carolina, and Texas. That makes it impossible to educate LGBTQ youth on some of the important issues that Picardi raised in his tweet thread.
The result: We have a lot of teens and young adults out there having sex, not really knowing how to be safe about it.
